What a man wants

Krysta Anderson
Krysta Anderson

August 31, 2020

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“A man with a dream needs a woman with vision.” Fellas, don’t you agree? When it comes to a relationship, couples strive for working harmoniously in a complementary manner, in order to fulfil the ultimate purpose of making each other happy.

Now, coronavirus (COVID-19) has been rough on everyone, men included. But just in case you didn’t remember, let this serve as a little reminder. Flair is flipping the script and giving the ladies some insight into what your leading man wants.

Men want good conversation – emphasis on good. Try to make the discussion surround a topic of his choice or his liking. And see if you can teach him a thing or two, while learning from him in the process. Set the tone to spark happy vibes with his favourite beverage, meal or a sweet combination of both. He’ll be in better spirits in no time.

Men want peace – This definitely requires reading the room. He might want to forgo any light chatter because of the hectic nature of his day. When this is the case, it’s best to remain silent. Let him lead in whatever direction he wants to go and you just follow suit. He will not only love that gesture, but respect you for it too.

Men want gifts – The presents can either be tangible or sentimental. It could be inspiring posts written just for him, some lunch from his favourite restaurant or something that he always wanted, like a new book or a new watch. You can even splurge on a well-needed getaway, just the two of you. You don’t need a special occasion to give him a gift. Life in and of itself is worth celebrating. As long as it shows you were thoughtful in your purchase or creativity, that should be a win in his book.

When it comes to a relationship, couples strive for working harmoniously in a complementary manner, in order to fulfil the ultimate purpose of making each other happy.

Men want an ‘independent-dependent’ woman – Confusing, right? Who said women were the only complex beings? Men want a woman who is an independent thinker, brilliant in every sense of the word; one who works hard, who is strong, thought-provoking, yet compassionate and kind, knowing exactly what she wants out of life. But they also desire a woman who wants a man to take care of her too, appreciating his efforts of words and actions. Striking a balance between those two extremes will make you a dream come true for him, over and over again.

Men want loving – This could be the easiest and hardest thing a man wants, because his passion may lie in more than the usual. Flip the switch and give him something to look at, sexy lingerie perhaps? A game of ‘truth more dare’ or ‘naughtier than nice’? Whet his appetite and satisfy all of his carnal cravings.

Men want to be pampered – If your man is all about living in the lap of luxury, then have that ambience waiting, following a hard day. The aim is to make him both comfortable and relaxed. And sometimes it only takes one touch. May we suggest a sensual bubble bath for two, a foot soak and rub or a full body massage, from you, his hot masseuse? P.S. Be sure to give him a happy ending – he will definitely love that.


Krysta Anderson


Krysta Anderson

Tackles sex and relationships with honesty and openness. For months, she took readers on a journey of self-exploration with personal dating column 'Single but Iffy to Mingle'. Now she's ready for an even bigger adventure.

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